The Full Divorce Journey - Begin with a 1-1 Divorce Strategy Session
Want To Know What Some Divorce Lawyers Don't Tell You?
The Full Divorce Journey -
Starting With Your Divorce Strategy Session
How much is conflict making your divorce a money pit?
Want to know to use 'peace' to turn costly conflict,
into a creative strategy for the best way to divorce?
Do you want to:
- Get back in control and avoid being sucked into an adversarial legal system?
- 'Bootcamp' yourself for mediation and know when and how best to make use of it?
- Feel free to plan a future you can look forward to?
- Look your kids in the eyes and know you did your best to keep it peaceful?
- Start over unburdened financially and emotionally by the divorce?
How does it work?
- I share all the info you need
- You save thousands on your divorce
- You feel less stressed and more in control
Includes a report of our consultation and personal introductions to professionals you need - all professionals you are referred to offer complimentary initial conversations or even whole consultations.
Do we want the same things?
I believe.....
- There is no such thing as a broken family - only an extended family.
- Court is not the only place to divorce a narcissitic spouse - if you use the right strategies and support, dispute resolution offers some great options.
- In the war of divorce, always make peace your weapon of choice. Which means you need to do some homework. I tell people what the lawyers don't tell them.
My clients:
- Save thousands of wasted money on legal fees
- Build successful co-parenting with strong boundaries in place
- Are excited about their future life
An example of how this could look for you:
- 1 session on You. You're wellbeing. What you plan to do as the children grow older. What level of stability do you want - are you happy to move around rental accommodations if that means you don't have to be responsible if the boiler breaks (ps. there are insurance policies for that BTW!) How are you making time for yourself. What strategies would put you in the forefront rather than back of the queue. Talking to a divorce coach I'll introduce you to for a complimentary session about this first would be good - to focus on more general areas that are easy to achieve but that could really benefit you psychologically and keep you on top form.
- 1 session on the financial aspects after you've had a session with our Chartered Financial Planner, and got some info back from a mortgage advisor. We'd discuss the different options and you would formulate what you want to be proposing to your Ex, and how (ie. there is more than mediation on offer as a way to negotiate).
- 1 session of the various options beyond mediation such as arbitration and collaborative law. Being clear on how to avoid court because your Ex probably doesn't realise how many good ways there are to avoid court where possible, but you will know those options. We'd look at staying one step ahead of what he might do, so you have a clear plan of action for every eventuality. When you are in the App, inside the Secret Divorce Group Meetup tile, there are some great interviews with parents in equally tricky situations that you will find helpful.
- 1 session on the co-parenting plan. Getting that started so it's easy for you to then update. Getting Our Family Wizard shared diary set up and also with your older children having access, so they can maintain contact with their other parent but in healthy, boundaried ways.
The Full Journey
The Complete Divorce Strategy - Five Sessions in a 90 Day Programme which makes sure you save thousands of pounds/dollars and massively reduce the stress and strain of the separation experience.
Session 1: Prep the Voyage - Initial Strategy - create your initial plan to navigate the divorce process
Session 2: Free the Anchor - Take Control - creating emotional, psychological and co-parenting resilience
Session 3: Hoist the MainSail - the Divorce Tool Kit - saving thousands and losing the fear around the finances
Session 4: Set the Compass - Create your bespoke 'travel guide' for your own divorce
Session 5: Starting Over - focus on what's next
I was honoured to be asked to present a TEDx Talk in December 2019.
I called it: The Peace Delusion in the War of Divorce
1-1 Online/Phone Divorce Strategy Session
I’m looking to work with divorcing individuals who:
- Think it’s not fair that they might lose everything they’ve ever worked for just because of the divorce and want to feel confident about their future
- Are determined that their children will not suffer because of the family separation and don't want to feel guilty about what is happening to the family right now
- Would feel empowered by knowing ALL the divorce options available to them and what strategies to use to make sure their divorce goes as smoothly and in as stress-free a way as possible.
Organisations Suzy has collaborated with:
Who is Suzy Miller - Divorce Strategist?
I have collaborated with the Ministry Of Justice in helping to promote Dispute Resolution and educate couples on how to have a more peaceful divorce. I'm the creator of the UK’s first Divorce Fair and campaign for better ways to divorce.
I don’t believe in 'broken families’: I believe in ‘extended’ families.
And as a Divorce Strategist, I'm always happy to guide people towards the right person to talk to at the right time, and offer them a wealth of resources through my online free resources.
Let's Get Started - Book your first session
Session 1: Prep the Voyage - Initial Strategy - create your initial plan to navigate the divorce process
- 1-1 45 minute zoom/skype/phone Strategy Consultation
- Free one month's membership of the online Secret Divorce Group (NOT on Facebook)
- Personal introductions to a range of professionals who all offer complimentary calls/consultations
- Online (and printable) Divorce Organiser
Book Your Initial Divorce Strategy Consultation for £350/$475 and get started right away