Divorce Financial Workshop: Surrey

Don't miss out on the next Divorce Financial Workshop!


Don't be scared of the divorce finance fears!


Join us at this unique Divorce Financial Workshop ONLINE:

  • Feel more in control of the financial aspects of your separation/divorce
  • Create strong foundations for a better way to divorce and co-parent
  • Learn how to save thousands on legal bills you may be able to avoid

Wednesday 25 March 5.30pm to 8.30pm


Divorce Mediator Alice Wightman & Divorce Solicitor and Managing Partner of Stowe Family Law Esher, Emma Newman, welcome you to an event where you can lose your fear around the divorce finances!


Spend a few hours with Divorce Strategist Suzy Miller

in partnership with experienced Financial Planner Henry Elliston:


  • Strategies on dealing with very 'difficult' spouses (behaving like narcissists)
  • Create your own Divorce Strategy Plan
  • Gain a clear insight into your financial situation and learn what steps you need to take to gain security
  • Learn how to build a successful financial plan for the future
  • Special priced ticket for FNF members and Divorce Club 


(Suzy)"... has experienced the challenge of separation herself - has created a programme to help you emotionally as well as practically rise to the massive challenge you face” 👍  - Alice


Discover how to confidently plan for your future, create budgets

and understand your assets.

Learn How To Manage Even Very 'Difficult' Spouses/Ex's.




What attendees said about our recent workshop:

"Thank You for an amazing workshop which was supposed to be on finance but we got so much more than that and was very beneficial.....A very fulfilling day. Lots to work on now and sort out the intricate details of my case which I feel more confident about now." VW

"Thank you for a really brilliant workshop...Emotional strategies. A warm approach to Finances...".. RA 

"Taking time to reflect.... Anon

"Thank you SO much for an amazing day.... Ina






Areas we will cover in this interactive workshop:


  • How to reduce or avoid entirely any 'court time' saving on average £25,000 - £75,000
  • How to co-parent successfully even if you don't like the other parent anymore
  • How to stay psychologically in control and avoid the common mental and physical side effects of divorce
  • The tricks of budgeting and managing debts/mortgages
  • How to harness Cash flow forecasting, to help you plan for the future
  • A deeper understanding of your pensions and investments and how assets can be shared



“The family law court-based system is toxic. If you don’t know how to navigate it you can end up broke, on anti-depressants and physically ill. Your best approach is to keep things peaceful.” Suzy Miller: Divorce Strategist


Are you a member of Families Need Fathers?

All paying members of Families Need Fathers and other key partners will get a very special rate.

When you register for free here to be on the waiting list, make sure you email suzy@startingovershow.com to tell me which group you are a member of.

Not an FNF member yet?

Families Need Fathers support mothers as well as fathers. Find out more about membership here






Make Divorce Less Scary and Gain Clarity and Control over Your Money


  • Why is the timing important in divorce?

There is no good time of course. There may be allowances or tax implications to consider or benefit from with regards to timing, but ultimately the key message is ‘have a plan’, be aware of all the facts and don't get bogged down in the figures when initially what you need is a clear strategy.


  • How can we reduce the vengeance that can spring from those experiencing the divorce process?

Its difficult as each family's situation is different. Taking responsibility for working out a fair and sustainable settlement that puts the needs of the children at the heart of the process is a good way to reduce conflict, as it reduces the fear.


  • How does a financial planning service help prepare someone for mediation/Dispute resolution?

Taking control of the finances and building a set of plans from 'right now' through to 'hopes and dreams' - this puts divorcing/separating people into a position of power, which gives them the confidence to move forwards with their situation in more peaceful ways.






So who is Chartered Financial Planner Henry Elliston (FPFS)? 


Henry is a chartered financial planner, offering knowledgeable, but simply  explained advice to individual clients with a friendly open approach. 


He advises clients particularly going through the difficult periods of divorce or separation, helping them to make difficult financial decisions but also helping them to map out their future financial needs and then drawing up a plan to achieve them. 


He has been working with private clients for 15 years and is based in London and Oxford. 



  • My ex and I were splitting up and needed help working out how best to share our money as I'm not great with my finances.  My ex had a final salary pension, which was really complicated to understand, and we had some other savings/pensions as well.  Henry reviewed everything and then gave us really clear guidance on how best to share the assets, which has proven to be very fair.  Henry is also provided me with comfort that I will have enough money in future (provided I keep saving towards my pension!).  I highly recommend him for his friendly, professional and generous advice.’  Anne, Oxford


  • The Efficient Portfolio ethos has not only provided a much more comfortable picture about my finances, but the whole engagement encourages positive thoughts about more life-options with those finances. This ethos encourages a more 'holistic’ view about life... not just finances but more importantly working towards better wellbeing and happiness and building in lifetime ambitions with my family and friends.’ K Malloy


  • Because my marital situation changed almost two years ago, this is the first time I have had to deal with financial matters on my own. Anytime I have asked to see Henry, I have been dealt with very thoughtfully and helpfully, which I really have appreciated. Henry and Efficient Portfolio are aware of my personal situation and have given me the confidence to consult them when necessary.’ Heather





So Who IS Divorce Strategist Suzy Miller?



Suzy Miller is a campaigner for more peaceful ways to divorce - a professional speaker who shows divorcing and separating parents how to save thousands on their divorce and protect the children from psychological harm.

Suzy has been interviewed on BBC Radio 4 Woman's Hour, appeared on BBC Breakfast TV and been featured in numerous national magazines.



What People Are Saying About Divorce Strategist Suzy Miller:


"Suzy is a fountain of knowledge when it comes to divorce. She is wonderful at giving frank advice and putting you in touch with the right people." - SC


"Hi suzy.. Thanks again, you have given me some good options so I’m forever grateful, Regards" - Danniel


"Suzy was able to offer really important and comforting advice on the whole process and offer positive alternatives to help guide me through this stressful time. Her contact list is extensive and she was able to put me in touch with a many great people who were also able to offer guidance and make the process much less painless. I'm really glad I met her and feel like my journey through this difficult period has been much more positive because of it"  - KM


"Thank you for showing us an alternative way to approach divorce. It is greatly needed in the world." Sandra Elston, Energy Healer


"Suzy came up with a strategy to get through it without spending a fortune. She introduced me to some brilliant people who were all focussed on finding an amicable way through the difficult minefield that is divorce.  

She also introduced me to people who could help me with the personal impacts. It’s still a grim journey but I now feel I have a plan and a support network to draw on."  VC


"…in a room of over 100 people she shone out like a beacon of hope." Dr. Marion Bevington (LION)™






Special guests include:

Theta Healer Debbie Talalay who will be running a short session on 

  • Allowing the new to happen without hanging on to the old 
  • Clearing space so your future is not contaminated by your past
  • Allowing yourself to attract more prosperity. 



Divorce Mentor Zina Arinze:

Zina is a bubbly, deeply spiritual serial entrepreneur and the founder of Believe and Live Again, the Post Divorce Lifestyle Coaching and Reinvention Mentoring services helping female professionals and business women around the globe transition from "we" to "me" and regain their feminine power after divorce or a relationship breakdown..

A lawyer by training, with an MBA, she is also a certified Divorce Recovery Coach, Having under gone a traumatic divorce herself, Zina understands only too well the challenges the professional woman faces in balancing her personal, spiritual and corporate life in order to stay ahead and maintain her cutting edge.



This workshop is sponsored by Esher Stowe Family Law.

Stowe Family Law is the UK’s largest specialist family law firm with an office in Esher town centre. Founded in 1982, the firm employs over 75 specialists family lawyers with a collective experience of over 800 years. 


The team of family lawyers in Esher is headed up by Emma Newman, a highly regarded lawyer with over 20 years of practice experience in Surrey. Emma is supported by Senior Solicitors, Sarah Hodges and Niamh McCarthy and an in-house accountancy team.


The team practices all areas of family law including divorce, separation, financial settlements, arrangements for children, out-of-court settlements, mediation and nuptial agreements.


“Thank you for all your support, advice and understanding during a very difficult divorce, but which came to an amicable conclusion. Mine was a very complex divorce which was excellently handled by Emma Newman.”  Mrs H




We look forward to you joining us at this unique event:


  • Workshops with experts in their fields - we invite in guest speakers in parenting and wellbeing


  • You will learn what you need to complete the divorce/separation journey in a healthy and productive way; simplifying the jigsaw puzzle of the divorce process and giving you strategies on how to troubleshoot any dilemmas that may already have surfaced.


  • Feel inspired with new-found confidence…


  • A shared experience; the opportunity to believe in a positive outcome that might currently seem ‘far fetched’; to be able to look your children in the eye in years to come and say: “I did it the right way, despite the circumstances”.


"Lots of expertise in different areas. Suzy is very inspiring and so knowledgeable." - Nadia

(Found the most useful about the event....) "Peaceful parenting, 'Toolbox', Financial advice, Lunch was great" - Kasia


"Understanding the full process of divorce in a relaxed and safe space.  Knowing that is is possible in a peaceful way. The financial support was amazing, a lot to take in but knowing the support is there is a godsend."  Maria

"Focused my mind on next steps, parenting tips to help children deal with the situation. Seeing how important financial planning is going to be going forward." Joanna


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